Sex can get better after kids. Really. I am well acquainted the million reasons why sex is harder to have after kids: time, exhaustion, and lack of interest, to name a few. But I talk to many moms who say that once they actually have sex, they feel more free to explore their sensuality then […]
Search terms that may have brought you to my blog
As you might imagine, having a blog title with the words mom and sex in it brings many Google searchers who may arrive at my blog expecting something….of a much more explicit nature. My apologies if you came here hoping for porn—only to find a blog on how feeling sexy after kids can be so […]
The Friday Five: First Edition
Welcome to Sex Lives of Moms first edition of the Friday Five: Five Questions answered by a mom somewhere in our great country about her sex life. This week’s contributor, L describes herself as: A thirty-six year old mom of two, a 6-year-old and 21-month-old. I was a professional student (seriously how many partial degrees […]
The Sexual Mama Conundrums
Conundrum: An intricate and difficult problem. -Merriam-Webster Dictionary After we have kids, women’s conversations about sex often revolve around our lack of desire. The challenges of caring for children and long-term relationships can definitely put a huge damper on our sex-drives. But it sometimes feels like it is the only socially acceptable way for mothers […]
Getting Back on Top
I am so pleased to introduce Sex Lives of Moms’ very first guest blogger, Mama Natrix. ————————————————————————————————————————- I had discovered my attraction to kink long before I met my partner. I enjoyed being a top (go here for the formal definition), especially to men for whom the concept of bondage was mere fantasy. Blindfolding a […]