(Why is there a 90’s photo of Jared Leto in this post? Read on to find out……and don’t judge.) Many of us moms often face two challenges when it comes to sex: getting turned on and following that up with great sex. Our libidos don’t fire up when we want them to, or everytime […]
How to reclaim amazing sex
So, here’s a scoop that is no surprise to anyone who has ever had a partner. Sexual relationships are challenging. Especially long-term ones where you have sex with the same person, and only that person, for ever and ever, amen. Lately I’ve had many conversations with women who have said things like, “Sarah, I don’t […]
When sex becomes a chore
“Oh my God, three days without sex is like DEATH for me.” says a sweet, child-less friend upon hearing a couple of moms talking about how sex once a week is an honorable goal in our child-full existences. “Oh my God, I NEVER want to have sex.” says a mom of an almost one-year-old […]
Repost: Toy Story: Motherhood and Sexual Healing
An excellent piece from the literary parenting magazine Brain, Child by Meredith Fein Lichtenberg, CCE as posted on Huffington Post. “When I walk in to teach my workshop, the students’ chairs are arranged in front of dozens of vibrators. Along the wall behind me, like my backup singers, is an assortment of arm-sized strap-on dildos. This is […]
The best excuse you’ve yelled through the bedroom door at your kids about why it’s shut, and why they can’t come in.
The candles are lit, soft music is playing in the background and you and your honey are painstakingly arousing every inch of each other’s bodies, when there is a knock on the door, “Mom! Dad! What’s going on in there?” Okay, scratch the candles, the music and the foreplay. Even the odds that you are […]