The Sunday New York Times’ Modern Love Column is one I never miss. I may not (usually don’t) get around to reading the rest of the Sunday paper, but Modern Love is the first page I turn to, where every week a different guest writes an essay about some aspect of love. I’ve read stories […]
New Year’s challenge for moms: What turns you on?
(Why is there a 90’s photo of Jared Leto in this post? Read on to find out……and don’t judge.) Many of us moms often face two challenges when it comes to sex: getting turned on and following that up with great sex. Our libidos don’t fire up when we want them to, or everytime […]
How to reclaim amazing sex
So, here’s a scoop that is no surprise to anyone who has ever had a partner. Sexual relationships are challenging. Especially long-term ones where you have sex with the same person, and only that person, for ever and ever, amen. Lately I’ve had many conversations with women who have said things like, “Sarah, I don’t […]
Better sex after kids
Sex can get better after kids. Really. I am well acquainted the million reasons why sex is harder to have after kids: time, exhaustion, and lack of interest, to name a few. But I talk to many moms who say that once they actually have sex, they feel more free to explore their sensuality then […]
Search terms that may have brought you to my blog
As you might imagine, having a blog title with the words mom and sex in it brings many Google searchers who may arrive at my blog expecting something….of a much more explicit nature. My apologies if you came here hoping for porn—only to find a blog on how feeling sexy after kids can be so […]