Conundrum: An intricate and difficult problem. -Merriam-Webster Dictionary After we have kids, women’s conversations about sex often revolve around our lack of desire. The challenges of caring for children and long-term relationships can definitely put a huge damper on our sex-drives. But it sometimes feels like it is the only socially acceptable way for mothers […]
Getting Back on Top
I am so pleased to introduce Sex Lives of Moms’ very first guest blogger, Mama Natrix. ————————————————————————————————————————- I had discovered my attraction to kink long before I met my partner. I enjoyed being a top (go here for the formal definition), especially to men for whom the concept of bondage was mere fantasy. Blindfolding a […]
What comes first–desire or arousal?
A major complaint I hear from some moms I talk with about their sex lives is that they often start having sex before they get in the mood. Basically, they don’t get turned on until they are in the middle of lovemaking. Many of these women just take this as a fact-of-life, they know that […]