The Friday Five: Sixth Edition
This week’s contributor, T, a mom of two elementary-aged kids answers five questions about her sex life.
What does being a sexual mama mean to you?
It means being a multi-dimensional being. I don’t just wipe bottoms and noses. I’m more than a mom and chauffeur. I think, I feel, I’m horny. It makes me happy to have secret sexual jokes with my partner and pass knowing looks when we are surrounded by little people and the responsibilities of parenthood. I chose him to spend my life with – never forgetting what I have in a partner is vital to our romantic life.
What’s the best thing about your sex life now?
My sex life is exciting and silly. Years together have lead us to a place of complete comfort and ease.
How would you compare your sex life before kids with after kids?
Always good – so much better now. Our family is complete. We are surgically infertile. Sex is all about fun and we are as open and free with one another as two people can be. We are past the sleep deprived mayhem and we have a lot of adult alone time after the kids go to bed to explore.
What is the most important thing to you about your sexuality?
I’m selfish. I do things I enjoy, and I expect to be satisfied. I am super orgasmic and wouldn’t consider faking it or engaging in anything I didn’t completely find hot. I firmly believe that sexual confidence breeds sexual satisfaction.
Anything fun or exciting in your sex life you want to share? (I live vicariously.)
For average middle aged parents, we toss in a lot of dirty to daily life. Flirty, dirty texts. Trips to the sex toy shop (while the other partner is buying toilet paper at Target with the kids). This secret life adds to our intimacy and fun.
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